Silent Sticks X-Grip Set
Volume a problem? Not now!
Your weapon of choice for most situations: a nice thick and firm X-Grip in the size of a 5A stick gives you enough control, the Dual-Twist-Reflex-Tip from hard nylon gives you a nice attack on both cymbals and toms, so close to the sound of regular sticks, only the volume difference will give it away. Can be used on both acoustic and e-drums.
And for the bass drum, acoustic or e-drum, there is Silent BeaterTM.
incl. Adoro Silent Beater, Fiber Shaft
Especially made for Acoustic Drums, the Silent Beater (fiber) has a durable but light shaft wich will reduce your kick volume significantly. With teflon pad to reduce friction on meshheads. It has a small head that delivers low volume with punch. Or, add the shock-absorbing impact pad (included) to further soften that punch and lessen the volume even more.
Fits all bass drum pedals.